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She believed that after all, she is the queen of the king while others are simply plucking some fruits but the tree belongs to her. Please don’t listen to online in-laws. Many of them advising you are already regretting quitting their marriage.

Some of them has succeeded in contacting various kinds of viral diseases from jumping from one man to another. They have no peace. They divorced a cheating husbands to become a divorcee helping men to cheat on their wives.

As I am talking to you now, many of them are inside our hotel room with someone’s husbands, something they divorced their husbands from. Our Muslim sisters would advise their husbands to bring her home if he so much loves her. But our Christian sisters would always harm themselves with bad decisions when they were emotionally hurts.

I know it wouldn’t be same story if you were the one who did this. But our culture and even our religious beliefs has unjustly positioned our men to marry as many wives as they deemed fit. While women were unjustly pushed into a corner of marrying one husband for life.

My dear Adesua, once you say you wouldn’t marry him again, they have won. Stay put and retain your position as the queen of the kingdom. Remember Yul Edochie? He has remarried and is enjoying his new home while the first wife who couldn’t manage her emotions is still roaming about.

Men hardly marry a divorced woman who left her husband because he cheated on her. This is because no man would give you a rubber-stamp guarantee that he wouldn’t cheat on you. So they don’t want a situation whereby you would abandon them because they cheated on you. Remember, even Jesus has a girlfriend or a female bestie. Go and read your Bible to find about the two sisters of Lazarus.