A disturbing story shared by Prophet Ebuka Obi has left me feeling infuriated and disappointed.- Chukwuma Ndiogulu
A man from the USA called Ebuka, narrating a heartbreaking tale of how he was blindsided by the woman he loved.
The man claimed to have met a young girl selling vegetables with her mother in a market in Southeast Nigeria. He took it upon himself to sponsor her education, eventually marrying her and bringing her to the USA. He even supported her family, relocating her parents and sibling to the USA.
However, things took a turn for the worse when the woman became financially independent, earning more than her husband. She began to distance herself from him, and her family, who had been supported by the man, turned against him.
The final blow came when the woman started an extramarital affair with a younger woman, who would visit their home without acknowledging the man’s presence. When he confronted his wife, she sued him for divorce, leaving him homeless.
I am appalled by Ebuka Obi’s failure to hang up on the caller, as this man’s story is a stark reminder of the dangers of blind love and the importance of prioritizing one’s own family and well-being.
The caller’s naivety and lack of foresight are staggering. He should have prioritized relocating his own siblings to the USA before supporting his wife’s family.
This story serves as a cautionary tale about the importance of maintaining a sense of reason and prioritizing one’s own needs in relationships. It also highlights the unfortunate reality that many women may leave their marriages if they become financially independent.
While this may seem like a bleak outlook, it is essential to acknowledge the importance of mutual respect, trust, and communication in any relationship. Blind love and excessive generosity can lead to disastrous consequences, as seen in this heartbreaking tale.
Ebuka Obi should learn how not to disappoint a person like me. This is the last time I will forgive him for disappointing me. Chukwuma Ndiogulu
He should have hung up the phone on him instead of listening to his stewp!d and disappointing love story.According to Ebuka Obi, a man called him from USA and narrated how he met a young girl selling vegetables with her mother in a market in one of the towns in Southeast.He took it upon himself to train the girl in the university and later married her and then brought her to the USA. He sent her to school to study nursing and after she finished schooling, she started working and started earning far better than her husband.Because of the yeye love he has for her, he brought her mother, father and one of her siblings to the USA. He made her siblings living in Nigeria very comfortable.When the man wanted to bring one of his siblings to the USA, his wife rejected the idea.When his wife’s parents were living in Nigeria, they hardly support their daughter when the man complains. But ever since they were relocated to the USA, they withdrew their support to the man and started supporting their daughter.Recently, a particular young woman started visiting his wife at home. Sadly, the visitor doesnt greet the man of the house each time she visited. So the man scolded her wife and told her to stop the young lady (presumably her Iesb!an partner) from visiting their home. His wife got offended and immediately sued him for a divorce.The man is currently homeless in USA. Since children are involved, the court ordered the man to leave the house for his ex wife and the children and gave him a day in a week to visit the children.The reason why I am angry with Ebuka Obi for his failure to hang up the call is because the man is among thousands of Igbo men who completely Iost their sense of reason just because of what is under the skirt.Even if his parents were not alive, he should have first of all relocated his siblings to the USA before ever dreaming to do same to his wife’s family members.I keep telling people that your inlaws can never love you more than as your parents and siblings would. Your blood is your blood. Even if misunderstanding occur, settlement and forgiveness is very certain.
You might think I have an awkward perception towards the femaIe foIks but I am talking based on experience. The iron clad truth is that 90% of women still married to their husbands today are likely to leave their marriages if they become financially independent and able to take care of all their needs. Over 90% of Women accept love advances from men because of material gains. Only men love women genuinely.
