BUT NO WOMAN IS A SMALL GIRL:
Never you call any woman a small girl, no matter how small and timid. She is only small when she has not become the madam of your house. Wait and watch out for her.
Don’t ever make the mistake of thinking that women are second fiddle: Wait until she comes into your house. Every woman, no matter how small, is a package of surprises.
Every woman has the inbuilt capacity to control you, no matter how small. No woman can play the role of a wife and a mother and remain a small girl after going through the transformational experience, passing through the labourroom.
To crown it all, a woman’s shock absolver is stronger than that of a man. Check it out. So don’t take any woman lightly. If you do, you will be making a big mistake that will put you down. Women are even better manager than men when it comes to leadership, thou they are 50/50 in all they do.
She is a poor village girl, so innocent and clumsy; so small and timid. That is when she has not come into your life and home; she is so when she hasn’t gotten right over you. No girl remains innocent after tying the knot. When married, the Bibles calls both of you co-heirs of eternal life.
“In Christianity, marriage achieves a sanctity and significance which was not known in ancient times. The forgotten dignity of woman was brought to light, and it’s value acknowledged.”
It would be unfortunate for any man to marry his wife the way his forefathers married their grandmothers. Marriage has a standard, and that standard is the Christian Bible standard. If you’re not ready for it, stay clear.
Some people claim not to be interested in marriage but they can’t do without sleeping with women. Whether we like it or not, women are very important for the wellbeing of men. If you acquire all the wealth of this life and you’ve not “acquired” a wife, you’re empty.
Wealth does not make a mature man, only a woman who is your wife makes you a mature man. If you claim to be a mature man, keep a wife and raise a family. Only a wife can make you a complete and balanced man in life. With your wealth, if you cannot maintain a family, you have no say in the “committee of nations”.
A girl’s innocence expires after wedding. Although many have lost their innocence before the wedding proper. Innocent girls are hard to come by these days. A girl may be innocent until she comes into your life to become one flesh.
Infact good wife materials are women who can manage their husbands to the envy of others. It’s no wonder the Holy Scriptures noted in Proverbs 31:10-12.
“A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.”
Women don’t marry to control or compete with men, rather they marry to submit and complement them in all things, till death do them part.
When she comes into your life and home, you will discover that no woman is small; no woman is timid; no woman is clumsy; and no woman is a village girl. Wait until her status changes from spinster to wife.
Women are the only option B creatures. They are more proactive than men in terms of personal and home management. They are the only creatures that manage many things at same time (they are cooking, they are breastfeeding, they are answering call, they are helping Junior with school home work, they are pounding, they are washing, etc, at the same time.
No matter how small a woman is, when she gets married to you, she becomes the madam of the house; the queen of your kingdom. Though the Bible calls her a weaker vessel, it’s not just what you think. If you make her the queen of your kingdom, she will make you the king of her jungle.
Most men tend to think that women are possessions they acquire to use as they wish. Yes, women are created from men and for men, but not to be slaves to men. That mentality should be dropped.
No matter how small a woman is, don’t ever underrate her when she becomes a wife and madam. That girl has the capacity to become your president (your political leader). Many of them are the bread winner of their homes.
I’ve seen ladies who are directors of companies while their husbands are staffs; some are chief judges while their husbands are court clacks. I’ve seen a woman pay the husband double of what he earns, just for him to be happy and live for him.
As a madam, she has become queen of the house, and as queen of your house, the Holy Scripture calls her your colleague, with caution. She is your partner in progress or failure. You are equally associated with eternity.
“Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.” 1 Pet. 3:7.
When she is married, a village girl becomes a thing of the past. No matter her age. Marriage is a crown that changes the status of any girl. Even if you’ve slept with her, marriage changes her status. The person you knew is not the person you are seeing. Trade with caution in your jokes for it’s no more game as usual.
When I see young men fly home to look for village girls to marry; girls who are small, timid and clumsy; girls who are less exposed, they forget that no condition is permanent; the young shall grow.
You are what you are because of background and exposure; you are what you are because of opportunities available to you. Give the village girl equal opportunity, you may not see her back as she will become your co-contestant and rival in any field of life. But no woman is or should play rival to the husband at home.
As a woman whatever power, authority you exercise in the office, it should not be brought home. When you do, it becomes excess baggage that can tear down the walls of your marriage/in your relationship with your husband.
Husband and wife relationships are a kind of give and take. None is either superior or inferior to the other. If you think otherwise, you inflict wounds on yourselves (relationship)
How many men have vacated their houses for the village girls they flew home to marry; how many have become tenants in their own house because of the timid girls they flew home to marry?
How many are in court contesting for their wealth because of the timid girl they flew home to marry? The earlier you change this mindset, the better for you.
How many have become murderers because of the clumsy girls they flew home to marry; how many have lost almost everything because of the small timid girls they flew home to marry?
How many are prisoners? How many are in correction centers, because of timid/village girls they married. A girl may be seen as timid, not when she becomes a wife. So be careful how you treat her.
She is small, timid, clumsy and unexposed when both of you are still in the pretentious courtship and engagement season. She is so because she has no right over you yet. When you become one flesh, the timidity, the clumsiness, the small and village girl mentality will disappear.
Please, don’t marry a timid girl; don’t marry a clumsy girl; don’t marry a small girl; don’t marry an illiterate village girl. Marry for love; marry your love; marry your wife; marry your help mate.
Don’t marry her background; don’t marry her village; don’t marry her misfortune. Don’t marry out of pity and sympathy. Marry her person, she would be the mother of your children.
As a young man, if you really want to marry a wife; if you really want to marry your soul mate? Then prayerfully shine your eyes; marry a woman whom you would want to spend the rest of your life with.
Young woman, if you are really interested in him and you would want to marry him, don’t marry his background; don’t marry his fortune; don’t marry his success.
Marry your husband; marry the man with whom you will want to spend the rest of your life with, a man you would be proud to respect and call the father of your children.
Marry someone you would be proud to present to your parents, and be proud to defend before anyone.
Again I repeat, she is a poor, timid, clumsy, small village girl because she has no right over you yet. Wait until you become one flesh. Though they are weaker vessels in different packages, you will come to understand that no woman is small.
Don’t underestimate/underrate any woman, no matter how clumsy, no matter how timid, no matter how small a village girl she is. Doing so is to your detriment. God Himself is concerned about the weaker vessels.
“Has not the LORD made them one? In flesh and spirit they are his. And why one? Because he was seeking godly offspring. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith with the wife of your youth.” Mal. 2:15.
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