Nigerians In Tears As 43-Year-Old Woman Bites Off Lover’s Manhood for Lasting Too Long in Bed in Rivers State
A deeply disturbing incident has sent shockwaves through Rivers State, specifically in the Mile 3 axis of Diobu, Port Harcourt, where a 43-year-old woman identified simply as Gift reportedly bit off the tip of her lover’s penis during a violent sexual dispute. The bizarre and brutal act, which has drawn tears and condemnation from residents and netizens alike, occurred in the early hours of Thursday, May 15, 2025, and has since dominated local conversations both on the streets and online.
According to the Rivers State Police Command, the suspect, Gift, has been arrested and is currently in custody while investigations continue. The victim, known only by his first name, Sunday, is undergoing urgent medical treatment at an undisclosed hospital. Medical professionals are reportedly battling to save what is left of his genitals, though sources close to the situation suggest that full recovery may be impossible.
Eyewitnesses and community members on Bishop Okoye Street, where the gruesome incident took place, recounted the chilling details to reporters. According to a neighbor who spoke on the condition of anonymity due to the sensitive nature of the case, the altercation began as a lover’s quarrel but quickly spiraled out of control.
“Gift and Sunday have been in a relationship for some time, but they fight a lot. That morning, it got out of hand. Sunday was demanding sex, but Gift was complaining bitterly about how he always takes too long to reach climax,” the neighbor said.
“She told people later that he’s always using some kind of enhancement drug, and that she had warned him to stop. But he wouldn’t listen. They started shouting at each other. Then he beat her — that was when she retaliated,” the neighbor added.
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The report from the Nkpolu Police Division indicates that the argument escalated after Sunday allegedly forced himself on Gift, despite her protestations. Enraged and seeking to defend herself, Gift resorted to biting his manhood — not once, but with such ferocity that she severed the tip of his penis and, according to some unconfirmed reports, “ate the cap.”
The chaotic scene that followed was something straight out of a horror movie. According to witnesses, the victim’s agonized screams pierced the early morning quiet, drawing neighbors out of their homes.
“We heard him screaming, ‘My prick! My prick!’ and we thought it was armed robbers or some kind of cult attack,” said Mr. Kingsley Amaechi, a resident of the street.
“When we rushed to the compound, we saw Sunday rolling on the floor, blood everywhere. It was like a scene from a Nollywood film. His manhood was gone. Gift had blood on her mouth and hands. People wanted to kill her there and then.”
But for the timely intervention of officers from the Nkpolu police station, the suspect might have fallen victim to jungle justice. The police arrived just in time, dispersing the crowd and taking Gift into custody. Sunday was rushed to a nearby clinic before being referred to a specialist hospital due to the severity of his injuries.
The spokesperson of the Rivers State Police Command, SP Grace Iringe-Koko, confirmed the shocking development during a press briefing held on Friday.
“Yes, I can confirm the incident. A 43-year-old woman named Gift was arrested in connection with the case. She is currently in custody and assisting with the investigation,” the police spokesperson said.
Iringe-Koko also advised the public against spreading unverified or exaggerated claims, especially on social media where gruesome pictures and speculative versions of the incident were already circulating.
“The police are handling this matter professionally. We urge the public to remain calm and avoid sensationalizing the case. Any further updates will be communicated officially.”
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Medical experts consulted by our team suggest that the chances of full recovery for the victim are slim, especially if the severed tip of the penis is not preserved or surgically reattached within a limited window.
“If a man’s glans penis is completely severed and not reattached promptly under sterile and vascular conditions, the damage may be permanent,” said Dr. Nonso Ekwueme, a urologist in Port Harcourt.
“There’s also the risk of long-term trauma, both psychological and physical. If reports of ingestion of the severed part are true, then reconstructive options may be limited.”
Dr. Ekwueme emphasized that the victim would likely require counseling, possible reconstructive surgery, and long-term medical care to recover even partially from such a devastating injury.
News of the incident spread like wildfire across social media, prompting an avalanche of reactions. On X (formerly Twitter), the hashtag #PortHarcourtBiteCase trended by Friday morning, with users expressing horror, disbelief, and even dark humor.
One user wrote: “Wahala be like penis wey no gree quick release. Wetin man go do again? Na to do 2 minutes now!”
Another quipped: “Imagine surviving Nigeria’s economy, fuel subsidy wahala, and still meet your end inside woman lap.”
But not everyone found it funny. Women rights advocates warned against trivializing the incident, arguing that it was an example of gender-based violence turned on its head. Some claimed that Gift acted in self-defense, especially if Sunday had physically assaulted her and attempted to force sex.
A Facebook user, Linda O., wrote: “This woman is not a monster. She fought back after being repeatedly violated. We need to talk more about consent — even in relationships.”
Others, however, demanded that she be charged with attempted murder or aggravated assault, noting that regardless of the provocation, mutilating another human being in such a way was inexcusable.
The incident has once again brought to the fore issues around sexual consent, toxic masculinity, and violence in intimate relationships. Nigeria, like many societies, often downplays sexual violence within romantic or cohabiting arrangements.
According to human rights lawyer Barr. Amarachukwu Ogu, “What we’re dealing with is more than a bizarre crime. It’s the result of a broken understanding of consent, coupled with growing cases of intimate partner violence — both from men and women.”
Legally, she said, Gift could face charges ranging from assault to attempted murder, depending on the outcome of the investigation and medical reports. However, the question of provocation and possible self-defense may complicate the case.
“Did she act in self-defense, or was this a premeditated attack? That’s what the court will have to decide. But let it be known that even in long-term relationships, consent is not automatic,” she added.
Not much is known publicly about the suspect, Gift, except that she is a resident of Diobu and has lived in the Bishop Okoye axis for several years. Those who know her describe her as a fiery, outspoken woman with a “no-nonsense” attitude.
“She’s not one to let things slide,” said a shop owner who has interacted with her. “But no one expected this kind of violence.”
Some neighbors claimed that she had previously complained about Sunday’s sexual habits, accusing him of being “too rough,” “too obsessed,” and using “local enhancers” that kept him going for hours.
“She used to say ‘Na punishment to climb am,’ meaning she didn’t enjoy their moments together,” said another woman who identified as Blessing. “But biting manhood? That’s extreme!”
As of the time of writing, Gift remains in police custody at the Nkpolu division while Sunday continues to receive treatment under tight security. Police sources say that formal charges will be filed once investigations are complete and medical records are reviewed.
If prosecuted, Gift could face up to 14 years in prison under Nigerian criminal law for grievous bodily harm — and possibly more if her act is interpreted as attempted murder.
However, some community leaders are already calling for an out-of-court resolution, citing shame, social stigma, and potential reconciliation between the two lovers.
“Stranger things have happened,” said a local elder. “You’ll be surprised how love can find its way even after something this bad. But we urge the government to intervene and ensure justice is done — both for the man and the woman.”
This shocking case — one that blends sex, violence, consent, and trauma — has sparked more than tears. It’s a reminder of the volatility that lies within unspoken resentments, unequal dynamics in relationships, and society’s failure to promote open discussions about sex, pleasure, and safety.
For Sunday, the road to recovery will be long — physically and emotionally. For Gift, a trial may soon determine whether she is a villain, a victim, or something in between.
But for Nigeria, especially its young and urban population, this may be the moment to reevaluate what love, sex, and respect truly mean in the 21st century.
