An Open Letter to Chioma Adeleke: Navigating the Complexities of Marriage and Polygamy
Dear Chioma,
As the news of 2Face and Annie’s divorce continues to make headlines, many people have begun to speculate about the fate of your marriage to Davido. The similarities between Tuface and Davido’s lifestyles have led some to wonder if your marriage will also end in divorce.
The Reality of Polygamy in Modern Society
It’s essential to acknowledge that polygamy is a complex issue that affects many marriages in modern society. While Christianity and societal norms may dictate that a man can only have one wife, the reality is that many men, including celebrities like Tuface and Davido, have children with multiple women.
Your Role as a Wife and Leader
As the officially recognized wife of Davido, you have a crucial role to play in managing his unofficial polygamous household. It’s essential to understand that your position comes with responsibilities, including ensuring that Davido’s children with other women lack nothing.
Embracing the Reality of Your Situation
It’s crucial to acknowledge that you are, in fact, in a polygamous marriage. While it may not be officially recognized, the reality is that Davido has children with other women, and these women will always be a part of his life.
Managing Relationships with Other Women
It’s essential to understand that Davido’s relationships with his baby mamas will not disappear simply because he is married to you. These women will always be a part of his life, and it’s crucial to learn how to manage these relationships in a way that promotes harmony and understanding.
Seeking Guidance from Women in Similar Situations
As you navigate the complexities of your marriage, it’s essential to seek guidance from women who have experience managing polygamous households. Regina Daniels, who is married to Senator Ned Nwoko, may be a valuable resource in this regard. Additionally, Judy Austin, who has experience navigating complex relationships, may also offer valuable insights.
Being Mindful of the Company You Keep
As you navigate the challenges of your marriage, it’s essential to be mindful of the company you keep. Avoid befriending divorcees and single mothers, as their experiences and perspectives may not be conducive to a healthy and successful marriage.
Conclusion
In conclusion, Chioma, I urge you to approach your marriage with a clear understanding of the complexities involved. By embracing the reality of your situation and seeking guidance from women in similar situations, you can navigate the challenges of your marriage and build a strong and successful relationship with Davido.
Excerpt From ChukwumaNdiogulu
Dear Chioma Adeleke, this writeup is for you.
Ever since Tuface announced the end of his marriage with Annie, many people believe your
marriage with Davido might not escape experiencing divorce due to the striking similarities between Tuface and Davido’s lifestyle.I am glad to know that since Tuface married Annie, he has not disrespected her by impregnating another woman. Annie failed to manage a man who operate an unofficial polygamous home. Tuface simply officially married Annie to make her the head over his unofficial families but she failed to live up to the expectations.
Chioma, I want to inform you that Davido officially married you to make you the head/leader over his unofficial families. It is your duty to make sure his children from other women lack nothing. You must not bark at him if he is still romantically engaged with any of his baby mama. Have it at the back of your mind that you are in a polygamous marriage.
If married people hardly forget their ex and sometimes engage in séx with them secretly , how much more a man who has a kid or children with a woman? Can a man easily forget a woman he had a child with? They will forever be secret husband and wife.
When you marry a man who has different baby mamas and you think he would stop having sëx with them, you are wrong. If not for Christianity, Tuface and Davido would be living with all their baby mamas just as chief Ned Nwoko is living with his six wives. But in order to please the public and pretend to obey the church teachings on marriage, Tuface abd Davido married one wife openly and kept their baby mamas as their secret wives.
Chioma, if at any point in time you begin to see Davido with another woman, biko kupu nti. That woman can only end up becoming his fifth baby mama. Don’t waste time to add her child among the numbers of children Davido has in his unofficial polygamous home.
Chioma, remember that if you vex and leave your marriage, one of Davido’s baby mamas would move in and if she succeeded in convincing Davido to pay her bride prize, you are gone because Davido doesn’t want to operate an official polygamous home like senator Ned.
Chioma, be careful with the kind of friends you keep. Avoid befriending divorcees and single mothers. Don’t make Toke Makinwa and Tiwa Savage your confidantes because they are not in their husband’s homes. Be a friend to Regina Daniels who would give you tips on how to manage a polygamous household. Don’t fail to sneak into Judy Austin‘s inbox for counselling whenever your heart is heavy.
I wish you the best.